Well we all know that no one can forget thier first loves, or first kiss. It don't matter how long ago it happened you just won't forget it. Now try to imagine how hard it is to keep magic in a new relationship all the time. Now I understand that for some couples it isn't all that hard really. But there are the couples that the magic starts to go away, I don't have to tell most people that if that happens well for lack of a better term, well that sucks. And I'm sorry if that happens to you. Now if it don't happen to you than you and who you are with much eighter have very strong feelings for eachother or you are just meant to be together, but the two of you have to be very strong to be able to over come everything that may stop you from having that magic last as long as you want it to.
Now if that magic don't last with you and your other half and you stay together, well I don't know what to say really, but it also takes alot of strength to stay with someone that there is no magic. There must be something that is keeping the two of you together. Now understand to stay happy in a relationship you don't need magic, and you have the love of eachother and thats all you need, and you make every moment between the two of you wonderful, well I'm proud of you. Magic is something that you dont totally need, but if its there than you have a boost.
There has to be a strong attraction between you two and if its there nothing else really matters right?
Now anyone who reads this and if you are a synical person, well I know what your going to say, "there no such thing as magic" , "magic is in fairy tails only" those are two of the things you could say. If you are one of those people and your thinking dammit she is so wrong, well let me ask you this and please feel free to leave the answer in a comment. If there is no such thing as magic or its only in fairy tails, than how do you explain the first spark between you and your other half? How do you explain the couples that have stayed together no matter what, or the couple that go through hell to stay together?